Dating a single mom advice
I went out with a girlfriend in Montclair, NJ, to a fun place called Just Jakes. It was a little deceiving, sure, but I thought telling the guys I was a single mom would influence their answers—and I wanted raw thoughts.
And trying to help them avoid feeling uncomfortable should not be the priority; you getting the information and knowledge you need is the priority.
From their point of view, they may feel like you don’t want to talk about it and that they are doing you a favor by not bringing it up.
I can see you have a ton of confidence just to write it up and send it. I also think you are not the only 18 year old that feels this way. So I’m hoping this public post can be a help to others who feel just like you. And I would 100% recommend that you share this same email with them — both your mother and father — and tell them you want to have a series of open, frank conversations about sex with them.
First, you’re absolutely right that as Mormons we generally do a horrible job of talking with our kids about sex. They are the grownups, and even if the topic makes them uncomfortable, it’s their responsibility to teach their children.
The crowd was a mix of college guys and young professionals. And when the topic of my work came up, I told a small group of guys that I was working on an interesting article that required me to tap real-life guys for their opinions on dating single moms. It seems like baggage and I wouldn’t want to be involved in any baby-daddy drama.” “My mom was a single mom most of my childhood, so I have tons of respect for single mothers.
I would absolutely go on a date with a single mom and see where it could lead.
I know this probably isn’t the kind of email you want to read but I thought that you could answer it with keen insight.
Thanks a lot, Lisa —- Dear Lisa, Thank you so much for your email. As you know from our exchanges, I’m going to respond publicly here, and I also want Design Mom Readers to respond, because I think this is a topic that benefits from many experiences and many points of view. Second, I don’t know you or your parents, but based on what you wrote, and your confidence, I think they seem pretty great.
Also, my friend’s ex had a kid that always wanted to sleep in his mom’s bed and that would be a problem for me. I want all the perks that come with a grown-up relationship.” “A lot of my friends are divorced and one guy even has a kid after a one-night stand.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating