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Why is it that in any relationship, there's always that one unnerving deal breaker?
It doesn't matter how serendipitous your initial meeting was or how great of chemistry you two have... And when it does, you have to ask yourself: Do you settle, or do you break things off?
b) The uptick in this young-dude interest is so swift – and the age gaps significant. A few weeks ago my friend Perri emailed me: I have a question for you. But why am I being contacted by so many men who are 21 to 28 years old? Anyway, the next exchange wasn’t terribly valuable for gaining insight (though note his comments about looking for someone independent).
Dear Readers, Today’s question piggybacks on a previous question: Will guys date single moms?
Please read that post for more information about dating with kids. Also read a personal account, “Dating as a single mother in my 20s.” Please use the form on the “Ask the Guys” page to leave us a question.
Thanks, THE GUYS Dear Guys, I’m 20 and I have a little girl on the way—my first child.
I was engaged to the dad for a year and he promised me the family I have always dreamed of.
The trend has been fast and intense: In the four years I’ve been dating as a single mom, there has been a steep uptick in young guys looking for older single moms. ” As well as perfectly thoughtful messages that remark about my profile, interests or photos. Twice in the past few years I was involved for a few months each with men who were 3 and 5 years my junior, and in both cases they were really, really lovely people, hyper-bright, ambitious and both were about 700% better looking than me. Even if I would stare at them across the bar table or at their head on my pillow, rub my eyes and think This cougar-seeking phenomenon is another thing all together.
I know — all of the sudden they’ve started to approach me online dating sites. Opening lines include: “I’m a Columbia Law student, so while I might be younger, I’m clearly smart and ambitious.” “Ur hot.” “You look like you’re fun. What is significant about this trend is that a) younger men historically have not been interested in older women — especially moms. He’s great, makes me laugh, we have similar careers and education and the conversation is very easy and uncomplicated. The first one was a super-buff 24 year-old whose profile said he speaks English and Hebrew, works in finance and photos showcased him hanging with a dolphin and jamming at karaoke with his bros.
They often weed away quickly, the people who shouldn’t even be there. We’re sure there’s some young guy out there who will be more than happy to welcome you and your child into his life.
Ashley, your first priority will be your child, and you certainly don’t want to waste your time with guys who don’t get it. But you’ll only meet that person by getting out there yourself.
Which means, you might not want to have men stay over too often, especially as your child gets old enough to know.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating