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You can say, "Mother, I love you and I'm going to take care of you, but I'm not going to talk with you or spend a single extra moment in your house if you speak to me this way." If she acts as if she has no idea what you're talking about, be specific, for example, you can say something like, "I don't want your opinion about my appearance." If she doesn't stop her belittling behavior, follow through by limiting your phone conversations and other contact with her.If you find it impossible to stand up to your mother and demand that she treat you with the kindness and respect you deserve, it might be a good idea to see a counselor or therapist and explore your willingness to tolerate such disrespectful behavior.For example, most of us understand that if one wants good service from a waiter or clerk, one needs to treat them with respect, which can be as simple as saying please and thank you.

I have two other siblings who basically don't call her very often and since I am the oldest, I get the brunt of her calls. Three years ago, for almost 12 months my beloved younger sister was my mother's caregiver.

I have tried to do nothing but please this woman all my life and the more you give, the more she wants. I am no longer going to feel guilty if I don't answer the phone when she calls-I need to take care of myself! Two years ago today my sister looked at her future of being stuck with mother and decided to end her own life.

I have a loving husband, five grown children and 4 grandchildren. I quit my job to help care for my dad and now I help my mom every day, with almost every aspect of her life. She also constantly attempts to change my appearance, my hygiene, my speech -- whatever grabs her at the moment.

There is no one else who will take care of her, and she has no friends. I have always yearned for a normal relationship with my mother and now especially I want us to enjoy our "last times" together.

unfortunatly I do not have an answer but the question really touched a nerve because I am in the same position.

My mum is my mum and I am surposed to love her and I do and god forbid when she dies I will be devestated but I hate her with a vengeance,she is a real nasty piece of work and her feeling is that she has a daughter an you only have a daughter to look after you in old age that is fine if the mother daughter relationship is good but if no matter what you do is not good enough how can you deal with the hate I also have issues with my mom.

My step-dad passed away last summer, after he and my mother were married for 36 years.

Throughout their marriage, my mom controlled virtually every aspect of his life, including what he could say, what he should eat, what he should wear, who he could be friends with -- the list goes on and on.

Being the oldest, I basically did all the cleaning when I was living at home and helped with the three younger kids. The sad thing is, if she died, I honestly would be relieved. I know I am not the one to take care of her when the time comes. My mother did nothing to intervene and stop my sister's suicide or give me a head's up that my sister had reached that low of a point.

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